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Old Dog, New Tricks
by SISTERintheHOOD
 SISTER in the HOOD
Dec 06, 2010 | 1603 views | 9 9 comments | 4 4 recommendations | email to a friend | print | permalink
Rivkee, our hostess, displaying the fresh herbs
Rivkee, our hostess, displaying the fresh herbs
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Good friends sharing a fun night
Good friends sharing a fun night
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While I don’t relish offering up my age, let’s just say that this past week commemorates the 45th time that I have celebrated the Festival of Lights.  I have witnessed the glow of the Hanukkah menorah on precisely 357 sunsets. I have played dreidel using coins, Jolly Ranchers, and alcohol.  As for latkes, I have cooked many variations including zucchini, sweet potato, and carrot, and have done my share of sweet and sour, savory, and cranberry briskets.  One year, I made Hanukkah wrapping paper, and another I iced blue and white cut-out cookies.  You get the point.  At this stage in my life, I had been quite certain that I had exhausted most of the options for putting a new spin on Hanukkah. 

 

         While they say “you can’t teach and old dog, new tricks”, I have just learned that this cliché is patently untrue.  Two years ago, I joined Jewish Women’s Circle (JWC), a program sponsored by Chabad of Shadyside to bring women together to study and learn in the context of a “girl’s night out” replete with great food, drinks, and lively discussion. Rivkee Rudolph, along with her husband Rabbi Mordi Rudolph, run Chabad of Shadyside.  Rivkee is our hostess and comes up with interesting and fun ideas for programming each time we convene.

 

         Last Tuesday we got together to celebrate and learn about Hanukkah.  I had glossed over the evite to know that the night’s program had something to do with oil.  I assumed we would be learning about the Maccabees’ victory over the Greeks, and how at the rededication of the Temple the oil that was found lasted for eight nights instead of one night as expected. While it’s a captivating story full of triumphs and miracles, I can recite it in my sleep.  It’s the one story I remember in all of its glory from my Sunday school days.

 

         Once at JWC, I discovered that our lesson regarding oil was that we were about to learn how to make herb-infused olive oil!  While Rivkee wove into her cooking demonstration the significance of oil in the story of Hanukkah, as well as the how this holiday symbolizes the triumph of the Jewish soul, she instructed us on how to blend flavorful, fresh herbs and spices into olive oil to create a gourmet delight.

 

         Displayed on Rivkee’s kitchen counter were plates of leafy, fresh herbs ranging from sweet, tender basil, to woodier herbs like oregano and rosemary.  There was fresh garlic, black peppercorns, onion flakes, and cracked red pepper.  After we chose the greens and spices to our liking to place in our own olive oil carafe, we filled the remaining space with oil that Rivkee had previously cooked on her stove.  We each took home our signature olive oils that were equally beautiful and delicious. 

 

         For me, this was a novel and fun experience centered around a holiday full of ritual and tradition. Every night, my family has found a new use for this oil.  We have used it as a dip for French bread, drizzled it over homemade pizzas, and even used it instead of cooking spray when making scrambled eggs.  It has added a zest and richness to our food. 

 

         The great surprise of the story of Hanukkah is that the oil lasted much longer than expected.  A night at JWC is no different.  While the food we share nourishes the body, the camaraderie and connections we make nourish the soul for many nights to come.

 

        

 

 

 

 

 

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Sister in the 'Hood
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December 09, 2010
Lajrubin: Thank you so much for so eloquently sharing your thoughts regarding the Hanukkah season. You write beautifully and add great insights to these blog entries. BTW, I would greatly welcome a guest blogger!!!!
lajrubin
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December 08, 2010
Well Stacy, your story illustrates how in Judaism, there is always something new to be learned; a way to examine a holiday, prayer, tradition... from a new angle. That's what makes it so wonderful and fulfilling! By seeking out learning opportunities such as the JWC, women can then use this as a vehicle to enlighten and nourish our children in creative ways.(something which I always find to be a challenge). I must admit, that seven days ago,after making a fresh batch of crispy potato latkes then cleaning up for several hours, I began to question my faith in this particular holiday. Why, it didn't feel like a "holiday" at all! But now that I've had some time to rest,and it's the last night to kindle the flames, I'm feeling a touch of sadness that Hanukah is nearing it's close. I know I'll feel better tonight, when my family gathers to light the menorah in it's entirety ,then pauses, to take in the glow and beauty before us.
Karen K.
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December 07, 2010
Love the oil metaphor. Like adding new oil to a machine or new blood to our circulation, we always need to bring new energy to our ancient traditions. Thanks for doing just that in your posting about the JWC. You added a little spirit to my Hannukah spirtuality!
Sister in the 'Hood
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December 07, 2010
Lynn and Wendy: Thanks for reinforcing what wonderful experiences we share at JWC! Lolo, next time you'll join in the fun. I know it's a night you will treasure as much as we all do!
Sister in the 'Hood
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December 07, 2010
Metroman: Your support of my blog means the world to me. Thanks for sticking with me week after week
metroman
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December 07, 2010
Once again, you have shared in a very eloquent manner a special experience in your life. you are so fortunate to have such wonderful people around you, and even more fortunate, because you recognize that. May you and your family have a wonderful remainder Chanukah and a healthy and happy new year.
lolojbrowdie@aol.com
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December 06, 2010
I loved the article and would have loved sharing that special night with you and your friends at Rivkee's house. Belonging to JWC sounds purposeful and at the same time a lot of fun. I hope sometime I can be a part of the group with you. Food and friendship are two of my favorite things!!
wenskap@aol.com
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December 06, 2010
I feel very fortunate that I was one of the participants of this fun and informative evening. Rivkee always has something interesting and new to teach us. And, Stacy, as you always put it so eloquently in your blogs, the friendship we share is an added benefit to a much enjoyed evening. I hope that the many readers of your blog will feel welcome to join us in the future. Especially if they want to meet their favorite new blogger in person!!!
Lynn Snyderman
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December 06, 2010
As a loyal participant in Jwc, I echo Stacy's sentiment that the nourishment, camaraderie and connections I have made through this wonderful group last far longer than the gatherings themselves. Thank you, Rivkee, and thank you Stacy for letting the world know how wonderful this circle is.